Friday, February 27, 2015

Peace Corps Application Process... Hurry up and wait

So I know some people have been asking what all was involved in the application process for the Peace Corps.  I started the process in June of 2014.  The application it self was rather long and involved two essays.  I think it probably took around a week for me to complete.  I do not remember exactly what the questions were at this point but here are the essays I turned in.

To serve in the Peace Corp would be an awesome and rewarding experience that I have, on some level, been working towards for most of my life, I just didn’t realize it.  I always knew I wanted to combine my love for traveling and community service into a career but I never knew how.  I was a member of HOSA (Health Occupations Students of America) in high school, which prompted my love for the health care field. I went to college and took a random assortment of courses to figure out what I wanted to do with my life.  I didn’t know who I was as a person so how was I supposed to pick a career path? 
My Mom gave me the push I needed to travel, so with her help I boarded a plane, headed for the outback of Australia.  I had no idea what I was getting into working in the outback.  And there were times that I hated it, but there were more times that I never wanted to leave.  It was in the outback, interacting and working with the local Aboriginal tribe that I realized I wanted to work in public health, preferably in a developing country.  Upon my return stateside I made it my goal to finish my education and pursue my career goals.  Serving in the Peace Corps has always been goal of mine, but until recently I didn’t feel that I had the necessary education or experience to contribute to the Peace Corps. 
I know that it seems odd that a woman in her late 20’s would want to volunteer for a two year service in a far off place, but for me it feels right.  I know who I am as a person and what I can contribute to a community.  I love to travel, experience new cultures, and meet new people from all walks of life.  To have the opportunity to immerse myself in a new culture would be a scary and rewarding experience, and then to have the opportunity to help improve their quality of life is something that I would be proud of all of my life.
The biggest challenge that I will encounter is that I can be shy in new experiences.  I tend to sit back and assess a situation remaining quiet and reserved until I feel comfortable.  That is the main reason I started working in a restaurant, to force me out of my shell, and it worked.   I think it’s important not to discount how extreme culture shock can be, even if you are in a country that speaks your native tongue.  You can do research on the culture and country you are visiting, but it doesn’t compare to being in that country for the first time. Nothing helps but time.  I have been there, and have experienced the culture shock of going back home.  It is a scary experience but at the same time it is the best time of your life.




Traveling to another country and experiencing the culture of that country can be two totally different things.  I had traveled before I went to Australia, I even considered myself to be an experienced traveler having been to England, Italy, Puerto Rico, and to most of the 50 states, which was far more places than my peers had been to.  However until I lived in the outback I had never truly experienced a new culture. 
I don’t remember my first few days in Australia, I slept most of the time.  What I do remember was the unexpected language barrier that I encountered.  I did not even remotely consider that some words would have different meanings from one country to the next. After a few botched communication efforts, it became clear that this was not going to be as easy of a transition as I originally thought it would be. 
When I accepted the position at the cattle station store in the middle of the outback I assumed I would be working with local farmers.  However I came to realize that the store was for the local Aboriginal tribe and at first they didn’t trust me and wouldn’t even talk to me.  But soon they realized that I wasn’t going anywhere and they started to open up.  The most confusing thing that occurred was that when the Aboriginals spoke English, they spoke with an American accent.  However they had tremendous trouble understanding my accent because it wasn’t the Australian accent that they were used to. 
The farm I worked on not only produced cattle, and provided a store for the Aboriginals it also offered them a chance to paint and would in return sell the paintings and give the painter a profit from the sale.  The ladies and their children would come to the farm and stay all day, painting, shopping, eating, and gossiping while the men herded the cattle.  For the most part I stayed on the side lines, painting base coats or restocking the shelves, chipping in on some conversations, or played with the kids, eating lunch with them. Once they started to trust me I gently encouraged some of locals to purchase toothbrushes and toothpaste, and taught them how to use them.  I educated some members the tribe about the damage litter does and how to dispose non-perishable items.  By the end of my time on the farm I had gotten accustomed to their way of life and I like to think that in some ways I was able to help improve their quality of life.

I gained more from this experience then I could have ever imagined.  I learned that not everyone is going to trust you right off the bat.  That it takes time and patience to gain peoples trust and friendship.  I learned that little victories can be more rewarding than big ones.  Change doesn’t happen overnight and without understanding as to why the change needs to occur.  And most importantly I learned who I am.    

Once I turned in my application I received a confirmation email and letting me know I will be asked to complete a Health History Form.  It's important to be honest on this form because your doctor will have to sign off on it later.  After a month of waiting I was contacted by my local recruiter for an interview.  At this point I really started to freak out.  This was happening!  

I had my interview on August 11th, 2014.  It took maybe two hours.  The Peace Corp Recruiter was very nice and made me feel relaxed about the whole thing.  I had looked up the questions they may ask prior to the interview so I was somewhat prepared.  Naturally the day of the interview I forgot my notes and prepared speech at my house (It was a phone interview, so I did it at my Moms house to avoid distraction).  It turns out it was good I didn't have my notes.  The recruiter wanted me to be honest and raw when answering the questions.  

After the interview I had some interactions with my recruiter as to where my top picks would be and then nothing.  I waited forever for my invitation.  It finally came on December 2. 2014.  I was invited to serve in Guyana as a Community Health Specialist, departing April 20th 2015.  From there it has been a whirlwind of doctors appointments, passport applications, and packing.  
So overall the whole process from start to finish will take almost a year.  It is a lot of waiting around.  Even now with two months til I depart I don't have my plane tickets or confirmation that I have been legally cleared.  I am told by other volunteers that the tickets will come a month before my departure.  
As a side note to those people who are wanting to serve it can get very expensive.  The doctors appointments add up, and while the PC will reimburse you for some of those expenses, it won't cover all of them.  Also sending all the information in and getting things like passport pictures are an added expense.   I could not begin to calculate the total of what I have spent so far but it was pretty high.  




I have a terminal illness called the Peace Corps


No I am not dying but sometimes as I am getting ready to depart for 2 years I can't help but to make parallels to a person with a terminal illness.  

Giving/Donating all my stuff
I have been living on my own for years now, and have accumulated a lot of things.  Like a ton of stuff.  However, my friends have been benefiting from my massive purging.  I feel like Oprah, "you get a couch, you get a bookshelf, you get some books, and you get some more books".  Haha.  My mom is trying to warn me not to sell all my stuff, but what do I do with it all??  She doesn't want to keep it!  And I don't want to store it!  It has been easier than I thought to find good homes for my stuff!  So far only a small portion of things have gone to the goodwill pile.  So that's a good start right?  I want to send a special thanks to Alison, for taking the majority of my stuff.  And to Kim for doing the heavy lifting!!  

Saying goodbye
This by far will be the hardest part for me.  I know that I am coming back at some point but 2 years seems like a long time. Just the thought of saying goodbye is hard.  I get weepy thinking about leaving my friends and family behind.  I am especially going to miss my niece and nephews.  Ashlyn is starting to figure out who she is as a person and is going to need some guidance getting her trough these next years and I always thought that would be me.  It still can be there to support her just not face to face.  That is a hard pill to swallow.  And Timmy the middle child is growing everyday, and while he doesn't need me as much I will still miss his sweet smile, and cuddles.  Bobby is just a year old, and my hope is that he still remembers who I am when I get back!  Thankfully he started walking already so I won't miss that, and I will conveniently miss the terrible twos!  Although Carrie has assured me that she is more than willing to ship him off to me in the Jungle if he gets to be too much!  I know that all of my friends are going to keep in contact so that is good.  And I should have internet and will make sure to post my address when I get it.  I love sending and receiving cards so that is exciting!

Overwhelming support
I have been so overwhelmed by the support from everyone.  I feel so lucky to have people around me that support me doing this. I am so grateful for everyone who has loaned me things, bought me things, and are willing to send me treats while I am there!  

Monday, February 16, 2015

Guyana - What I know so far...



As you can imagine I have been doing a ton of research about Guyana.  I am really good at lists so I am going to do a list of all the things I know so far...

1. They speak English
2. The average temperature is 80
3. Lots of Indian Food
4. There will be cell service
5. THEY HAVE MANATEES (one of my favorite animals)
6. They also have giant spiders, and anacondas
7. Also Piranha's (EEK)
8. There are two rainy seasons
9. Jonestown happened in Guyana
10. Mosquito's are a problem 
11. Tampons are very hard to find
12. The monkeys are friendly
13. They Crocs are not as friendly

I have learned so many more things that I know I am forgetting but this is a good start!

Thursday, February 12, 2015

Let's start with the basics



 Hello World!  I am Missy and I am about to embark on the biggest adventure of my life.   In December, 2014 I was invited to serve in the Peace Corps.  I will be headed to Guyana in April.  Guyana is a little country on the east coast of South America. 
                                                                                                                          I am writing this blog at the request of my friends and family so they can keep up with my shenanigans while I am in Guyana.  I am terrible at talking about my self so here's the most important things to know about me: 
1. I am a terrible speller (always have been, always will)
2. I have a very dry sense of humor
3. I love to travel and explore new cultures
4. I love to read
5. My family is crazy and I love it

I think that is enough for now.  I hope you all enjoy reading about my adventures!